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Nina's avatar

I've always assumed that I will struggle with food and weight gain. I think- aren't naturally thin people lucky that food isn't a problem for them and maintaining weight is easy?! Me, on the other, I will have a lifelong battle, a daily struggle, against the temptation of eating unhealthy food and gaining weight. Maybe there is a different story I should be telling myself. Maybe I need to drop the assumption I have for myself and others around food and weight. Maybe there is a more positive thought pattern to practice...

The AI Architect's avatar

This reframe is so needed. The idea that assumptions become reality is underrated, especially with health stuff where negativity bias runs deep. I caught myself doing this with sleep recently, just repeating "I'm a bad sleeper" like it was fact when really it was just a story I'd picked up somewhere. Once I questiond that assumption and approached it diferently, things actually shifted.